A real condition there is no cure for, but ADMITTING would be the first step.

How can you recognize a narcissist?
(1) They are the biggest liars you've ever seen. They will look you right in your eyes, swear on a stack of bibles and tell you the biggest lie you've ever heard.
(2) On first meeting a narcissist will engage you directly with their eyes, then they will move away from you. They will make you feel unique and that because they have such a grandiose sense of self worth then their attentions on you also reflect your worth.
(3) A narcissist is, at first glance, a friendly, real person. This is the narcissist's bait. The person lures people in, only to control them, in any shape ore form. You will not recognize this, but as time progresses, you will feel guilty. They steal your relationships with people and haunt your feelings. They are a very special, wicked breed of people, who get away with what they do.
(4) They manipulate and control ... They do not have a significant number of long-term relationships .
(5) Narcissists are by definition liars. They appear to be something they are not. They seem confidant, charming, and social. They are master manipulators and total control freaks. They have no emotions and are void of empathy. They feel for no one but themselves. They are a bottomless pit that is never satisfied. They are incapable of giving and receieving true love.
(6) Their moods and emotions are extreme...and one night they can be crying and sobbing and (sucking you dry for support) and the next day they havnt a worry in the world
(7) They will push and push for what they want until you succumb to their wishes or needs regardless of how you feel about it.
(8) They will be nice as pie to your face and turn around and tell the next person they see and say you are nothing to them.