A Liar learns a lesson

http://www.fancast.com/tv/The-Twilight-Zone/97525/622101283/The-Twilight-Zone-%2812-hr%29---The-Whole-Truth/videos?cmpid=FCST_share


Wouldnt it be something if this could really happen? I know some people who need a dose of truth serum.

8 year old Arizona boy Christian Romero murders his father and family friend

I have been following the case of eight year old Christian who lived in Arizona with his father and step mother; he killed his father and a boarder of the home who worked with his father at a local plant. There is a gag-order placed on the details of this case but there are still some media leaks that are starting to spell the story out in more detail.
I have seen a lot of comments on this tragic case, and tragic it is. The more I read about this the more I am really starting to see more of a need for help for our children. As atrocious of a crime as this is, there is just something more to it that I am sure will be spelled out in the coming months.
From what I have gathered so far, the father took the child from the mother. The mother lives in Mississippi ironically. The father was remarried to another woman who spanked the boy most recently for leaving some papers at school. The media spoke to Dr. Shannon Fox to try and get a better understanding how this kind of crime could have happened in this family. Dr. Fox said that children that kill fit one of the three following categories: 1. Abused: It's estimated that 90% of children who kill were severely abused. They don't have a history of other disruptive behavior, but often times have tried to tell someone in authority about the abuse. When no one comes to their rescue, they might see murder as the only escape from a terrible situation. 2. Mental disorder: If a child is suffering from paranoia, they might be so distanced from reality that they commit murder without realizing exactly what is going on. This is extremely rare and would usually be identified earlier by teachers or other children who thought the child strange.3. Antisocial: Most commonly referred to as sociopaths, these children have a history of disregard for authority. They might kill as a means of getting something they want. They will typically show no remorse or fear of consequences.
In another article I read, the grand parents of the boy made a statement. They state that if any child was capable of this crime it was their grandson. So if they really felt this way, WHY IN THE HELL did they not advocate to try and get this boy some help. If they do believe this, there must have been warning signs, red flags of some sort. In my opinion some people along the way have really failed this child and I do not see this case being the last of this kind that we will hear about, and it certainly is not the first of its kind either.
It has now come out that this boy kept a tally on the spankings he received over his life. That speaks that this child has great intelligence, to be able to ledger the abuse. The tally is at 1000 spankings from what is being said.
Now here is the kicker, the more that comes out the sicker I get to my stomach about this case. Drugs played a role in this case somehow. Timothy Romans, the man who was nesting in a rented room at the family home is a known drug dealer. His wife has stated that she is in the process of divorcing him. My question is, did the father of Christian know that Romans was dealing? You can bet your sweet ass he knew and he more than likely was dealing and or using himself.
When this story first come to light, there were talks about just how great the family was, now all this information is coming to light. The family was not exactly as they portrayed themselves as were they?
My heart really goes out to this boy. He had to be in some serious pain in order to act out this crime. And NO ONE took the time to notice the signs and now a child, just a baby has committed murder. I know we still do not know the entire story but I pray that Christian’s mother takes the opportunity to use the case of her child in order to help adopt better policy’s to see warning signs of a child in distress. If we had better awareness, and better training by those in our education system, something like this can be stopped.
This child is going to need a lot of psychological help in the coming years and he will never have the equality of life that he so deserves, he will have to live the rest of his life with what he has done. And the BLAME… who should that rest on? I vote for the father for failing his child as he did. Having a known drug trafficker/user in his home, for the abuse he inflicted upon this child and for failing to see signs of distress in his own child.

No toiletries-- The Thanksgiving visit

No toiletries were present in the boy’s bags upon being picked up for visitation, not a toothbrush, no deodorant or other form of toiletries were to be found in their possession. How can anyone pack a child’s bags for a stay away from home and not at least pack their toothbrush or a stick of deodorant? Pictures have been taken of what they came with and all articles have been documented along with the picture proof. I ask you, as an adult would you leave home without your toothbrush or deodorant? Just more proof that these boys are not being properly cared for.

MY Children feel the same only the roles are reversed THEY WANT TO LIVE WITH MOM!!!

My boys feel the same way only their FATHER and GRANDMOTHER are the ones who are keeping them from expresing their feelings. MY BOYS WANT TO BE WITH THEIR MOTHER. BUT THEY ARE AFRAID TO TALK BECAUSE THEY ARE TOLD BY THEIR GRANDMOTHER THAT SHE WILL KILL HERSELF IF THEY WANT TO LIVE WITH THEIR MOTHER. THIS IS CHILD ABUSE PURE AND SIMPLE. I will never stop fighting for you boys, I love you with my entire being.

The PAIFUL TRUTH... THESE THINGS HURT OUR CHILDREN

This is real. And it happens in POPLAR BLUFF, MO it happens under our very own noses. Listen to what he says, they DID NOT LISTEN...
Who pays? OUR CHILDREN PAY.

My sediments exactly

Even though my situation is NOT EXACTLY THE SAME, it is similar. Whe you try and take a chidl awat from a parent, the pain is PAIN no matter how you look at it. Never seeing a report card, only seeing 3 schol pictures, never being invited to school functions, never being let known when there is an emergency, a problem, the PAIN IS REAL....

Who protects our children? COLD HARD FACTS THAT CHILDREN NEED TO HAVE A SAY...

LISTEN TO WHAT HE SAYS< THE FATHER AND THE MOTHER..... NOT THE GRNADPARENT>>
When talking to the school I fould out that the DAD who HAS CUSTODY hasbeen present at a total of 1 MEETINGS concerning the CHILDREN out of the 32 that I KNOW OF THIS FAR. Who was present at the other 31 MEETINGS?

Scary stuff. Why would someone do this to themselves?

What is an Enabler?

An enabler, is a person who by their actions make it easier for an addict to continue their self-destructive behavior by criticizing or rescuing. The term codependency refers to a relationship where one or both parties enable the other to act in certain maladaptive ways. Many times, the act of the enabler satisfies a need for the codependent person because his or her actions foster a need from the other person or persons in the relationship.
To enable the individual with the addiction, the mutually dependent person makes excuses and lies for the addict, which enables the addiction to continue. Codependency is reinforced by a person’s need to be needed. The enabler thinks unreasonably by believing he can maintain healthy relationships through manipulation and control. He believes he can do this by avoiding conflict and nurturing dependency. Is it normal for someone to think that he can maintain a healthy relationship when he does not address problems and he lies to protect others from their responsibilities? The way a codependent person can continue to foster this dependency from others is by controlling situations and the people around them. The ongoing matter in a codependent home, are to avoid conflicts and problems and to make excuses for destructive or hurtful behavior.
Why does enabling cause so much hurt in a relationship? The power afforded to the mutually dependent person in a relationship support his need for control even if he uses inappropriate means to fulfill his need to be in control. A second and overlooked reason, centers on the contradictory messages and unclear expectations presented by someone who is codependent. These characteristics give to a relationship filled with irrational thoughts and behavior. This kind of relationship has no clear rules to right and wrong behavior. The person(s) unhealthy patterns you enable may be doing one or more of these behaviors.(1) Drinking too much (2) Spending too much (3) Overdrawing their bank account/bouncing checks (4) Gambling too much (5) In trouble with loan sharks/check cashing agencies (6) Working too much/not enough (7) Maxing out the credit cards (8) Abusing drugs (prescription or street drugs) (9) Getting arrested (you are bailing him/her out) (10Any of a number of other unhealthy behaviors/patterns of addiction
Any time you assist/allow another person to continue in their unproductive/unhealthy/addictive behavior, whether actively or passively, you are enabling. Even when you say nothing you are enabling the behavior to continue. Sometimes you say nothing out of fear, fear of reprisal, fear of the other person hurting, hating, not liking you; or fear of butting in where you don’t think you belong. Perhaps even fear of being hit or worse.
Sometimes enabling takes the form of doing something for another that they should do for themselves. It also takes the form of making excuses for someone else’s behavior (example), There are situations where the spouse of an alcoholic will call in to the boss to say that person is “sick”, when they are really too hung over they can’t make it to work.
You more than likely enable out of your own low self-esteem. You haven’t gained the ability to say no, without fear of losing the love or caring of that other person. People who learn tough love have to learn that their former behaviors have been enabling and that to continue in them would represent allowing the other person’s pattern of behavior to continue and to worsen.



How can you recognize a narcissist?
(1) They are the biggest liars you've ever seen. They will look you right in your eyes, swear on a stack of bibles and tell you the biggest lie you've ever heard.
(2) On first meeting a narcissist will engage you directly with their eyes, then they will move away from you. They will make you feel unique and that because they have such a grandiose sense of self worth then their attentions on you also reflect your worth.
(3) A narcissist is, at first glance, a friendly, real person. This is the narcissist's bait. The person lures people in, only to control them, in any shape ore form. You will not recognize this, but as time progresses, you will feel guilty. They steal your relationships with people and haunt your feelings. They are a very special, wicked breed of people, who get away with what they do.
(4) They manipulate and control ... They do not have a significant number of long-term relationships .
(5) Narcissists are by definition liars. They appear to be something they are not. They seem confidant, charming, and social. They are master manipulators and total control freaks. They have no emotions and are void of empathy. They feel for no one but themselves. They are a bottomless pit that is never satisfied. They are incapable of giving and receieving true love.
(6) Their moods and emotions are extreme...and one night they can be crying and sobbing and (sucking you dry for support) and the next day they havnt a worry in the world
(7) They will push and push for what they want until you succumb to their wishes or needs regardless of how you feel about it.
(8) They will be nice as pie to your face and turn around and tell the next person they see and say you are nothing to them.

Narcissist... VERY IMPORTANT INFORMATION

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the diagnostic classification system used in the United States, as "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and a lack of empathy." [1]
The narcissist is described as turning inward for gratification rather than depending on others and as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power and prestige.[2] Narcissistic personality disoTo the extent that people are pathologically narcissistic, they can be controlling, blaming, self-absorbed, intolerant of others’ views, unaware of others' needs and of the effects of their behavior on others, and insistent that others see them as they wish to be seen [4]. They may also demand certain behavior from their children because they see the children as extensions of themselves, and need the children to represent them in the world in ways that meet the parents’ emotional needs [7]. (For example, a narcissistic father who was a lawyer demanded that his son, who had always been treated as the "favorite" in the family, enter the legal profession as well. When the son chose another career, the father rejected and disparaged him.)rder is closely linked to self-centeredness.
These traits will lead overly narcissistic parents to be very intrusive in some ways, and entirely neglectful in others. The children are punished if they do not respond adequately to the parents’ needs. This punishment may take a variety of forms, including physical abuse, angry outbursts, blame, attempts to instill guilt, emotional withdrawal, and criticism. Whatever form it takes, the purpose of the punishment is to enforce compliance with the parents' narcissistic needs[7].

http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com/2007/09/narcissist-grandparents.html
NPD grandparent will misuse their relationship to their grandchildren will vary. Generally, they will either over-value or under-value the grandchild as a means to get to you. Often, when they over-value, it is the objective of the Ngrandparent to steal the child from you. I mean that in both senses, physically and emotionally. Ngrandparents are known for so much trash-talking against you behind your back to your own child or children that they want to go live with grandma or grandpa, or the Ngrandparents simply inspire rebellion of the child against you. They steal the hearts of the grandchildren. Sometimes, they will battle for physical custody of a grandchild after their slander campaign against you has won them powerful allies. Many times the Ngrandparent has a lot of extra cash to throw around since they are done raising a family. They may successfully exploit the natural selfishness of the child by using cash or toys to lure them. I have read heart-breaking stories of these kinds of situations often enough that I recognize the clear danger any narcissist grandparent represents. They can even steal your children's hearts from you when the children near adulthood with promises of money, houses, cars, college tuition, etc. as bait.


Just saying......

Missouri and Child Support

Child Support Enforcement Office Is Fraught With Errors, says State Auditor
"Noncustodial parents may not be as much of a deadbeat as the state claims." Says State Auditor Susan Montee
JEFFERSON CITY, Mo. (AP) -- State Auditor Susan Montee said Thursday that Missouri's child support enforcement office is fraught with sloppy record-keeping, meaning some noncustodial parents may not be as much of a deadbeat as the state claims.
"It's extremely sloppy," Montee told reporters at a Capitol news conference. "It's a total inattention to making sure these numbers are right."Montee expressed concern that some parents could have child support enforcement actions taken against them -- such as automatic deductions from their paychecks or the revocation of passports -- based on faulty information. But she cited no specific cases where that occurred.The Department of Social Services, which oversees child support collections through its Family Support Division, said it recently has improved the accuracy of arrears tracked in its computerized system.
Rather, auditors randomly examined 209 cases from a pool of 187,033 in which their arrears totaled more than $1,000. Auditors said they did not focus on cases with lesser debts because those typically were just a month or two behind.
Of those sample cases, the amount shown as owed was incorrect 27 percent of the time, the audit said. That included 35 cases in which the amount listed as owed was overstated by anywhere from $1 to $35,432 and 22 cases in which the amount shown as owed was understated by anywhere from $10 to $12,820, the audit said.Applying the error rate from the sampling to the larger pool of 187,033 cases, the audit projected that about 51,000 cases could have errors.Auditors also examined 35 cases with arrears of more than $100,000 and found that 22 of those had incorrect balances owed. Fourteen overstated the debt, including two that were off by about $454,000. Eight understated the debt, including one by $54,691, the audit said.All the errors that auditors found were corrected by the department, Montee said.She described the mistakes as human errors, not computer malfunctions.In some cases, court judgments setting or changing the amount owed by noncustodial parents had not been entered into the computer, either accurately or at all, the audit said. For example, a judge reduced a parent's debt from $309,000 to $84,347 in June 2006 but the change was not entered into the computer until January 2007 after auditors caught the error, the report said. In another case, an April 2003 judgment reducing a parent's debt was not entered into the computer by department staff until March 2007.Other examples of errors included calculating a parent's obligation on a weekly instead of biweekly amount, which increased the supposed debt; failing to note when child support payments were to end, which resulted in the continued accumulation of alleged debt; and failing to reduce parents' debt when a 10-year statute of limitations prevented it from being collected.

A Christmas Story ...

Christmas as we all know has always been a child’s favorite holiday. The lights, the smells, and the joys of opening up prettily wrapped presents to discover the contents, perhaps it is something they asked for all year long, perhaps it is something they have dreamt of, and perhaps it is something that they need.
A few years back I had put in my request to be off for the Holiday’s long before the Holiday approached. I had been listening closely to the things mentioned all year long that the boys said they wanted or would like to have. I started my shopping in September. Each week I would get a couple of things on their list, I was just as excited about Christmas coming as they were.
That particular year deliveries were behind and man power was short so we all had to work a little harder. We did not mind so much because they more stops we put off and the more miles that we drove all added to the paycheck.
My deliveries waned over into Christmas Eve. The entire day I was in a rush, I was almost in tears because I felt like I would not be at home in the morning when the boys woke up. I have always watched them open their presents on Christmas morning, I could not stand the thought of missing this one.
All day long I put off my stops in Georgia. Finally at 5PM no stores would accept any more deliveries, as they were closing to go home and be with their families. At this point I was directed to go to a shipping yard and hand offload the rest of my load onto another trailer along with some other drivers who had not been able to offload their complete loads that day as well.
After hand unloading case-goods furniture onto another trailer it was after six PM Christmas Eve. I then had to drive 311 miles from Atlanta, GA back to our trucking company’s yard in Mississippi. It was almost midnight when I arrived at the yard in Mississippi. I then had to grab my gear, and get into my car and drive 65 miles to my home to load up all the presents, pack our bags for a few day’s stay away from home and clean up from working all day.
It was a little after 2AM Christmas morning when we were packed and ready to go. We then made the five hour drive to my mothers house to be there when the kids woke up to open their presents. I prayed the entire way that they would not wake up and momma not be there.
I did make it before they woke up and I was able to see their faces when they walked into the den to see all the things that Santa had left for them.
Later in the day we were playing with all the new toys and having a good time, I happen to ask them if they had a good Christmas at home. This is when my heart broke. They boys explained to my entire family that they got to open one present each. I said “Well you can open the rest when you get back home after Christmas Break” Their response “No, we can not open the rest until our aunt gets out of prison in a couple of months”
I had to walk out of the room and have myself a good cry. WHY should children be made to wait for the happiest Holiday of the year because someone else is in prison?? To this day I have not forgotten the look on their faces, and the pain I felt in my own heart that they had to sacrifice because someone else’s mistakes. All my sacrifice, hard work and determination to be there for them on Christmas morning was worth it all. If I had failed to have been there Christmas morning, what kind of Christmas would they have had that year? I thank God for watching over me and helping me have the strength to get to Missouri to be with my boys safely and on time.

I wonder who this is and how many more like this I have hmmmm

Click on the pictures to enlarge them. This just goes to show that ABUSE has been going on for YEARS.... These pictures are circa 1995 I have more too.......

It is amazing the things you hold on to isnt it.

SKIP... Do YOU pay child support ON your DAUGHTER?

OK we mentioned MY child support. But my question is DOES SKIP PAY HIS? He has a daughter, she is a beautiful child. So if child support, which I DO PAY…. YEAH I HAVE ALL MY DOCUMENTS SUPPORTING THAT FACT…. Then why would it be OK for him to not pay. Anyone want to ask him why he isn’t paying for a child that he brought into this world.
READ MY POST BELOW this one.
CHILD SUPPORT IS PAID EVEN WHEN ALL TIES HAVE BEEN SEVERED, THERE IS NO CONTACT etc etc. So next time someone wants to talk about me not paying the support that I do pay and how important child support is, before you point another finger GOLDEN CLAN look within your own to see if you are making the mistakes you accuse others of making. Keep it up, your outing yourself more and more.
One more thing, if you think what I am going in public is bad, wait to you see what I am doing in private. Just a heads up. I will NOT STOP AND I WILL NOT SHUT UP until I know my boys are happy, safe and taken care of EVEN if it is NOT ME who takes care of them. This is not about ME in anyway, this is ALL about my children’s wellbeing.

Child support and bribing please....

About the child support, it has been said that I do not pay. It comes out of my check weekly, and when I was self employed it was drafted from my check account weekly. If you are not getting the support you need to work with Jefferson City to find out where the money is. You know this has happened to you before. My check stubs and bank accounts tell no lies.
As far as clothes go, I made it a point to purchase everything for these boys on a credit card so that not only would I have the sales receipt but also the credit card billing statement as a secondary proof. Yes I do buy the kids a lot of electronics, there is no bribe in that they want them and I provide them when I can.
You made yourself out to be an ass when you wanted to act like I do not do anything for these kids, then you turn around in your own words and state that I do in fact buy them things. So which is it? By the way, if you really want to harp on clothes etc you may need to read this, this is what child support is:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_support
Legal theory
Child support is based on the policy that both parents are obligated to support their children, even when the children are not living with both biological parents. Though courts typically permit visitation rights to non-custodial parents, in such separations one parent is often awarded custody and the role of primary caregiver. In such cases, the other parent still remains obligated to pay a proportion of the costs involved in raising the child. Child support may also be ordered to be paid by one parent to another when both parents are custodial parents and they share the child raising responsibilities. In rare cases, a parent with sole custody of his or her children may be ordered to pay child support to the noncustodial parent to support the children while they are in the care of that parent.
In most jurisdictions there is no need for the parents to be married, and only paternity and/or maternity (filiation) need to be demonstrated for a child support obligation to be found by a competent court. Child support may also operate through the principle of estoppel where a de facto parent that is in loco parentis for a sufficient time to establish a permanent parental relationship with the child or children.[19]
[edit] Use of child support payments
All international and national child support regulations recognize that every parent has an obligation to support his or her child. Therefore, the custodial and non-custodial parents are required to share the responsibility for their child(ren)'s expenses.[24][25][26][27][28][29][30]
Support monies collected are expected to be used for the child's expenses, including food, shelter, clothing and educational needs. They are not meant to function as "spending money" for the child.[31] Courts have held that it is acceptable for child support payments to be used to indirectly benefit the custodial parent. For example, child support monies may be used to heat the child's residence, even if this means that other people also benefit from living in a heated home.[32]
Child support orders may earmark funds for specific items for the child, such as school fees, day care or medical expenses. In some cases, non-custodial parents may pay for these items directly. For example, they may pay tuition fees directly to their child's school, rather than remitting money for the tuition to the custodial parent.[33] Orders may also require each parent to assume a percentage of expenses for various needs. For instance, in the U.S. state of Massachusetts, custodial parents are required to pay for the first $100 of annual uninsured medical costs incurred by each child. Only then will the courts consider authorizing child-support money from a non-custodial parent to be used for said costs.[34]
Many American universities also consider non-custodial parents to be partially responsible for paying college costs, and will consider their income in their financial aid determinations. In certain states, non-custodial parents may be ordered by the court to assist with these expenses.[35]
In the United States, non-custodial parents may receive a medical order that requires them to add their children to their health insurance plans. In some states both parents are responsible for providing medical insurance for the child/children.[36][37] If both parents possess health coverage, the child may be added to the more beneficial plan, or use one to supplement the other.[38] Children of active or retired members of the U.S. armed forces are also eligible for health coverage as military dependents, and may be enrolled in the DEERS program at no cost to the non-custodial parent.[39]
Accountability regulations for child support money vary by country and state. In some jurisdictions, such as Australia and custodial parents are trusted to use support payments in the best interest of the child, and thus are not required to provide details on specific purchases.[40] In other jurisdictions, a custodial parent might legally be required to give specific details on how child support money is spent at the request of the court or the non-custodial parent. In the United States, 10 states (Colorado, Delaware, Florida, Indiana, Louisiana, Missouri, Nebraska, Oklahoma, Oregon, and Washington) allow courts to demand an accounting on expenses and spending from custodial parents. Additionally, Alabama courts have authorized such accounting under certain specific circumstances.
Child support it used to help offset the costs the parent who has custody experiences. No where does it say that the non custodial parent is obligated to anything more. Any other money, gifts, or contributions by a non custodial parent are strictly voluntary and does not count towards the support obligation meaning you can not deduct those expenses. Those extras are done because the parent LOVES their child and WANTS to give them things the want or need. IT IS NOT REQUIRED.

And to respond to someone else on topix, yes the children do act out when they go back. It is always heartbreaking taking them back because they do not want to go back. It tears you apart when you know you have to make them. I have had to get the law to help me make the oldest understand that he can not just STAY here because he refuses to go home.

This is all about the boys plain and simple. If my boys were not crying to me, if they were happy I would learn to be happy for them. But they are NOT. They act out on their anger and get in trouble because they want to be with their mother. No child should have to feel that pain. Shame on you people for NOT CARING ENOUGH TO LISTEN TO THEIR NEEDS. Children do have a voice and it should be heard.

The pain of loosing your child

Loosing custody and contact with your child is worse than the pain you would feel from loosing a child to a death, at least when you loose a child to a death you know where they are. You still grieve, you still miss them and by all means it is hard on a mother to loose a child that way. But when you have living children that you are not a part of their everyday life you worry, you cry, you pray, your mind is constantly on where they could be, what are they doing, what are they having for dinner, did school go good today or bad, did they see something silly today to make them laugh, did they think of you today?

I am thinking of you boy's now and every minute of every day. Keep strong, be good and always know I LOVE YOU LIKE NO ONE EVER HAS OR WILL I AM YOUR MOMMA

Sometimes the truth hurts

In life one has to be careful about what they say and do becacuse their wrods and actions can come back. I wonder to myself why it is that some people get so angry when the truth is told? Is it out of shame?

If you feel shame for something you have said or done and your words or actions come back to you the best thing to do is to say "I know I am not perfect I have made mistakes" and live with the fact that the truth always prevails.

Always be careful with your words and actions, what you say or do today can come back on you tomarrow.

Will your hurt you? Or benifit you?

Mother to Mother

Think back in time, the moment that you become a mother. You spent months growing this precious bundle inside your very own body. You had dreamt of that day, and it is now a reality. The moment your precious bundle of joy was laid in your arms I bet you were wearing a smile, were you not?
At that very moment everything changed, you changed, everything around you changed. The selfishness of being one was diminished when you became more than one, you are now a mother. You longer think the same, feel the same or see things the same. Dreams for your baby’s future fill your heart, your soul and your mind. You spend every moment filled with worry for the life that changed your own, every moment filled with joy to have a part of you in this world.
Remember all the times that you skipped eating that desert you so loved because that little life you created wanted it, so you went without in order to make your child happy? The times you really wanted a new outfit, but you seen a really cute one that would compliment your child perfectly so you forsake your own want for a new outfit?
How sweet the kisses and hugs were, they were real love, a love only a mother and child can share. No one on this earth means more to a mother than her children, no one can take her constant need to worry, love, cry, and be happy with her child. But what one can take is the ability to carry out these emotions.
A real mother loves unconditionally, and she would never hurt another mother’s relationship with her child, it’s an unwritten but understood rule of life. Just think about what it would feel like to have your child ripped from your arms and turned against you, used against you. How would you feel?